Your teenager is going through a lot. Problems that may seem simple for adults can feel much more burdensome for teens. But when your teen's behavior persists or changes severely, they may have other underlying issues.
Identifying the symptoms early will allow you to navigate the emotional landscape of your troubled teen better. Then, it's time to explore the intervention options.
Common Behavioral Issues of Troubled Teens
What type of behavior indicates the presence of teenage troubles?
Constant rebellion and defiance
Not following your advice and rebelling against your orders are typical teenage behavior. However, you must pay attention when these behaviors are accompanied by anger and other negative emotions.
If their behavior escalates to a level where the teen's well-being is severely impacted, it's time to seek help.
Academic struggles
Struggling academically can indicate your teen's inability to absorb school material. Usually, this happens to only one or two subjects. But if your teen's academic performance declines across many subjects and they don't show interest in their assignments, it can be a symptom of trouble.
Also, check for frequent absences. Their absence from school can indicate a more significant issue that requires attention.
Substance abuse
Teens can be curious enough to try something like smoking or drinking. But it would be a red flag if your teen suddenly starts acting secretive; locking themselves in, not wanting to share their belongings with anyone, and calling mysterious persons are some indicators.
This behavior could point to something more severe than alcohol or tobacco. They may be abusing other substances.
Mental health struggles
Troubled teens often grapple with mental health issues. It can start with anxiety, but it usually escalates into something more serious. Watch out for other markers like extreme mood swings and loss of interest in social interaction. Your teen can also engage in reckless behaviors to show how unsettled their emotions are.
If you notice these symptoms persisting and intensifying, the time for intervention has arrived. Approach your teen and address these issues with sensitivity and openness.
When Parents Should Act
Trust your instincts when deciding when to act. After observing their teen's behavioral pattern, most parents will know when to perform an intervention.
Some warning signs that you can no longer ignore are the following:
- Your teen's physical health is affected, and they become unhealthy
- Your whole family dynamics change and your other children also suffer
- Your teen's behavior has started to become destructive, risking themselves and others
- Your teen's behavior has involved the larger community, such as the school or authorities
When these occur, you can no longer ignore the elephant in the room and must take action to solve the problem.
If you're unsure what to do as a parent, reaching out to your peers (other parents) can help. Ask them for their opinion. It would also be a good idea to seek the opinion of educators and mental health professionals.
Exploring Intervention Options
Many troubled teen programs can offer intervention options for your teen. Some of them are:
Individual counseling
Providing a safe, confidential space with a suitable counselor can help your troubled teen explore their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. A skilled counselor can identify the root causes of their issues and work with the teen to develop coping strategies.
Family therapy
This group therapy for families can address communication breakdown and how to improve it in the family unit. Both parents and teens can express their concerns and collaborate for a positive change.
Residential treatment
In residential treatment (or inpatient treatment) like Liahona Academy, troubled teens temporarily reside in a specialized facility with comprehensive care and supervision. It gives a structured and supportive environment to address their behavioral, emotional, and mental health challenges.
As an intensive form of therapeutic intervention, your teen will receive multidisciplinary treatment from a team of professionals. A benefit of this treatment is that your teen will live with other teens going through similar issues so that peer support can offer valuable insight into their problems.
Finding Help in the Troubled Teen Landscape
Adolescence is a challenging period. Your teen is going through changes that may be too much to handle alone. After careful consideration, you must step in to help.
Liahona Academy is here to help parents deal with the emotional distress from their troubled teen's behavior. Reach out to us and get the help you deserve.
