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Teen Skipping School and Refusing to Go to School

Many of us had days when we dreaded getting up and going to school. Even now, as an adult, it’s likely that you dread going to work. But we know what our responsibilities are, so we forge forward. Teens are tasked with the responsibility of going to school to complete their education. It’s perfectly normal for teens to have days where they don’t feel up to going to school. They may even fake illness or skip out early without permission. But what happens when your teen is skipping school? Do you know why he’s refusing to attend classes? The answer may be more complicated than he simply doesn’t want to go.

Reasons teens may stop going to school

There are several reasons that your teen may have decided to skip classes or skip going to school completely. While motivations can vary between individuals, some common causes may apply to your teen.
  • Bullying or feeling unsafe at school
  • Peer pressures and influences
  • Falling out with friends or romantic partners
  • Substance abuse
  • Struggling to keep up with the school workload
  • Learning disabilities, diagnosed or undiagnosed
  • Changes in their circumstances
While some of these reasons may not make sense to you, as a parent, the most important thing to keep in mind is that your goal needs to be getting your teen back in school. Berating them or making them feel awful about something they are already struggling with will not be very helpful. Let’s further explore the most common reasons your teen could be skipping classes and refusing to go to school.

Bullying or feeling unsafe at school

Studies have shown that at least 1 in 5 students has reported being bullied at school. Your teen may not be open with you about what he is experiencing at school, so you won’t know there is a concern until he’s outright refusing to go to school. Understandably, your teen doesn’t want to attend a school where he doesn’t feel safe. If his teachers and school counselors haven’t done enough to protect him, he may have too much anxiety about going to school and being harmed.

Peer pressures and influences

Teens are often heavily influenced by their peers. This may be due to wanting to feel like they belong. Sometimes peer pressure and influences take a positive spin, but often, they do not. Your teen’s peers may encourage him to skip out on classes or ditch school entirely. They may choose to engage in vandalism, petty theft, smoking, drinking, or using and abusing drugs. It’s essential to know your teen’s friends, especially if he starts to change the people around him.

Falling out with friends or romantic partners

Your teen’s friends and romantic partners play an important role in their life. If they have had a falling out or a bad breakup, your teen may not feel much like going to school. Parents should be aware of some of the signs of depression, as even a breakup between friends can hold the potential for seeing a teen spiral into depression.

Substance abuse

Anyone who has abused drugs and alcohol can tell you that substance abuse becomes the focal point of their day-to-day life. For a teen, the same holds. Your teen may prefer to spend his days abusing his substance of choice, or he may be so entirely under the influence that he’s unable to get up in the morning or stay awake at school. Parents should learn to identify the signs of substance abuse in teens.

Struggling to keep up with the school workload

It’s a reason as old as education itself. Your teen may not have completed his homework assignments on time or may not yet have completed an important project. Of course, he won’t want to go to school if he’s not only falling behind but struggling to catch up and keep up. What can you do to help him with these types of difficulties? Get in touch with his school counselor and teacher. They are often more than willing to help students get caught up or offer an adjusted schedule so teens can better cope. In some situations, however, it’s best to remove struggling teens from that educational environment entirely so they can be placed in a different type of learning space, such as a boarding school that can focus on helping them find his motivation to learn.

Learning disabilities, whether diagnosed or undiagnosed

Attention deficit disorder (ADD) or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) are just two learning difficulties that teens could be faced with. Your teen may also have dyslexia or have another learning disability that hasn’t been diagnosed and addressed. These concerns can lead him to feel embarrassed that he’s falling behind. It can also sometimes lead a teen down the road of following that negative peer pressure to avoid spending time in school.

Changes in their personal circumstances

The teen years can be tumultuous at the best of times. If your teen’s life has seen some significant shifts, it may lead him to be reluctant to go to school. Perhaps there’s been a divorce, or parents have remarried? A move to a new home and a new school can also prove disruptive. Parents should be aware of how major life changes can impact their teens and be willing to offer the correct type of support if their teen appears to be struggling.

Potential legal ramifications for parents

Laws can vary between city, county, and state. But the reality is that parents are responsible for getting their children and teens to attend school. There is the potential for parents to face some serious legal ramifications if their teens are not attending school. Some of these legal concerns could include the following.
  • Fines through the court system
  • Involvement of child protective services
  • Mandatory counseling
  • Jail time
  • Job loss because of spending so much time dealing with a truant teen
Your teen may not take it seriously, but you don’t have a choice to take his skipping school seriously. Often, teens find that being removed from their current situation and allowed a fresh start can be constructive. Boarding schools that offer therapeutic solutions can also help teens get to the root of their troubles.

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